24 September 2009

Feeling Linked

One cannot ignore the feeling of loneliness creeping up in our skin. Feeling rejected, nobody to confide in and most importantly losing confidence in oneself. This do happen when you do not feel linked.

I would describe "feeling linked" as having a special relationship with any kind of entity; a person, an object, an animal, the nature. Well anything that a human can get attached to.

This whole process of "feeling linked" is a projection of our mind when we are benefiting a feel good factor of any in a relationship. Don't you feel linked when you care about someone, you have sex with your partner, you satisfactorily completed a task of any kind.

Among all the ways of maintaining relationships, the most difficult one is human-human. We always have divergence of opinions that splits us. Can we overlook all kinds of divergence and converge as a single body? No, we can't. Look around! Can you see all the conflicting hearts?

Being able to make conversation with people is yet another way to feel linked. Sharing your thoughts, experience; well sharing your experience in short. I would call that doing some "bondings".

I personally feel not so at ease at making conversation. It like I am making an effort to talk to people. Why is that so? I am someone reserved? Or I just don't want to make conversation? I would rather say, it's the former.

This particular situation comes when someone has been oppressed for a long time by a stronger power. This breaks one's "relations" making faculty. (From where did I found that?). Or even by some kind of event in one life.

Either way, you should always try to feel linked in your life. Only then that you would be able to have a rich and healthy life.

Love and get loved. That is the chain of "feeling linked". Happy loving.


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